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Why Am I Feeling So Much Resentment After Having Kids?

coffee cup that caused a fight on resentment

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 3 minute read couples | intimacy | mental-health | guilt and shame

A woman sat across from me recently and told me she was furious because her husband had left a coffee mug on the counter. Not in a joking way. Not in a... more »

Postpartum Intrusive Thoughts: Why They Happen and How to Heal

mom caring for baby after therapy for postpartum intrusive thoughts

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 5 minute read anxiety | baby | emotional support | mental-health | postpartum

A new mother once told me, “Sometimes I get these awful thoughts that come out of nowhere. They scare me so much I can’t even say them out... more »

Toronto Mothers are Increasingly Overwhelmed After Kids

toronto mother

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 3 minute read emotional support | mental-health | Parenting | postpartum | guilt and shame

From the outside, many city moms appear like they’re holding everything together. The Toronto parents seem to be juggling everything. They’re... more »

How Does Parenting Differ for Neurodivergent Parents?

neurodivergent parents with child

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 3 minute read anxiety | mental-health | Parenting | postpartum | guilt and shame

Many neurodivergent women spend years learning how to function in environments that were never designed for the way their brains work. They create... more »

Egg Donation and Mental Health: Understanding the Emotional Journey

woman reflecting on egg donation

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 4 minute read anxiety | emotional support | Fertility Journey | mental-health

Egg donation is often spoken about in medical or logistical terms: cycles, retrievals, injections, success rates. What’s less often discussed is... more »

Why Postpartum Anxiety Often Doesn’t Look Like Anxiety

woman experiencing postpartum anxiety

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 2 minute read anxiety | mental-health | Parenting | postpartum

Many women expect postpartum mental health struggles to look obvious. But postpartum anxiety often hides behind: over-functioning, perfectionism, constant... more »

Why Does Motherhood Feel so Hard?

woman with her child in early motherhood

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 3 minute read emotional support | mental-health | Parenting | postpartum

There’s a version of motherhood many women imagine before they arrive in it. Even when they know it will be hard, they still expect moments of relief.... more »

How to Find the Right Therapist for You: A Gentle Guide to Getting Started

woman talking to virtual therapist

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 4 minute read anxiety | boundaries | depression | emotional support | mental-health

It usually begins quietly. You realize that you have been coping on your own for a long time and that you might need someone to talk to. Maybe it is the... more »

Coping with IVF Stress: Strategies for Emotional Balance

woman finding joy amidst IVF

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 3 minute read Fertility Journey | grief | mental-health

“Hope and fear often live side by side during fertility treatment.” If you’ve found yourself on an emotional rollercoaster while undergoing in... more »

Supporting a Neurodivergent Partner After Baby

neurodivergent partner playing with baby

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 5 minute read baby | boundaries | couples | emotional support | mental-health | Parenting | postpartum

When a new baby arrives, even the most connected couples find themselves navigating a new rhythm. But when one partner is neurodivergent- living with... more »

Guilt and Comparison in Secondary Infertility: A Therapist’s Perspective

mother holding child while feeling sadness about secondary infertility

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 4 minute read Fertility Journey | mental-health | guilt and shame

It often begins quietly: a longing for another baby, a new sibling, a fuller family. For many parents, the desire to grow their family feels natural and... more »

Maternal Gatekeeping: Why It Happens and How Couples Can Rebuild Balance

couple working together overcome maternal gatekeeping

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 5 minute read baby | couples | mental-health | Parenting | postpartum

After birth, many parents expect teamwork to come naturally, yet reality often feels more complicated. One mother I worked with said, “I kept telling... more »

When Motherhood Meets Social Media: A Therapist’s Perspective on Comparison and Self-Worth

mother scrolling social media and feeling self-critical

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 4 minute read anxiety | depression | emotional support | mental-health

I often meet mothers who whisper a version of the same confession: “I know social media isn’t real, but I still feel like I’m... more »

Parenting While Neurodivergent

neurodivergent parent sitting with child

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 5 minute read 2 under 2 | baby | boundaries | emotional support | mental-health | Parenting

A client once told me, “Everyone says motherhood is hard, but I think it’s different for me. The noise, the unpredictability, the... more »

Understanding Intimate Partner Violence (IPV)

Understanding Intimate Partner Violence (IPV)

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 6 minute read boundaries | emotional support | intimacy | mental-health

When people picture abuse, they usually think of bruises or shouting. Something visible. Something loud. But the truth is, many forms of intimate partner... more »

What Narcissism Really Is (And What It Isn’t)

What Narcissism Really Is (And What It Isn’t)

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 3 minute read boundaries | emotional support | mental-health

It feels like everyone is talking about narcissism these days. There are thousands of posts and videos telling you how to “spot a... more »

Relationship Struggles After Kids

rebuilding relationship after kids

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 2 minute read couples | intimacy | mental-health | Parenting

No one really tells you how much your relationship will change after having kids. You expect exhaustion and busyness, not distance. Not the arguments... more »

Understanding PTSD and How Healing Actually Happens

woman healing from PTSD

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 5 minute read anxiety | depression | emotional support | grief | mental-health

You’ve probably heard of PTSD- Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder. Maybe you picture soldiers, car crashes, or something catastrophic. But PTSD can happen... more »

Should We Get a Divorce?

couple seems happy but debating divorce

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 2 minute read boundaries | couples | emotional support | mental-health | Parenting

It’s one of the hardest questions you can ask yourself: Should we get a divorce? By the time couples get here, they’re usually exhausted. The fights... more »

I Don’t Feel Like Myself After Having a Baby: Rediscovering Yourself

not feeling like yourself after baby

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 3 minute read baby | birth support | emotional support | mental-health | Parenting | postpartum

You keep waiting to feel like yourself again. You thought it would happen after the first few weeks. Or once you started sleeping more. Or once your body... more »

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