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When Worry Won’t Stop: Understanding Postpartum Anxiety

woman googling postpartum anxiety

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 5 minute read anxiety | baby | Parenting | postpartum | guilt and shame

You check your baby’s breathing for the third time in an hour. You listen for every sound, watch every movement, and replay every “what... more »

Toronto Mothers are Increasingly Overwhelmed After Kids

toronto mother

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 3 minute read emotional support | mental-health | Parenting | postpartum | guilt and shame

From the outside, many city moms appear like they’re holding everything together. The Toronto parents seem to be juggling everything. They’re... more »

How Women with ADHD Describe Postpartum

women with ADHD

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 4 minute read emotional support | Parenting | postpartum | neurodivergence

Many women with ADHD spend years developing systems that help them function. They create routines. Compensate constantly. Push through overwhelm. Appear... more »

Why Anxiety and Resentment Often Show Up Together

couple after resolving resentment

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 2 minute read boundaries | couples | emotional support | intimacy | Parenting

Postpartum anxiety is not always obvious. Learning the subtle signs can not only provide context to all these new feelings but can also minimize resentment.... more »

Why Postpartum Feels So Emotionally Lonely for So Many Mothers

postpartum parent and baby

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 2 minute read anxiety | baby | Parenting | postpartum

Many women expect postpartum to be exhausting. What they don’t expect is how emotionally disorienting it can feel. You can love your baby deeply and... more »

How Does Parenting Differ for Neurodivergent Parents?

neurodivergent parents with child

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 3 minute read anxiety | mental-health | Parenting | postpartum | guilt and shame

Many neurodivergent women spend years learning how to function in environments that were never designed for the way their brains work. They create... more »

Why Postpartum Anxiety Often Doesn’t Look Like Anxiety

woman experiencing postpartum anxiety

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 2 minute read anxiety | mental-health | Parenting | postpartum

Many women expect postpartum mental health struggles to look obvious. But postpartum anxiety often hides behind: over-functioning, perfectionism, constant... more »

Why Does Motherhood Feel so Hard?

woman with her child in early motherhood

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 3 minute read emotional support | mental-health | Parenting | postpartum

There’s a version of motherhood many women imagine before they arrive in it. Even when they know it will be hard, they still expect moments of relief.... more »

Supporting a Neurodivergent Partner After Baby

neurodivergent partner playing with baby

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 5 minute read baby | boundaries | couples | emotional support | mental-health | Parenting | postpartum

When a new baby arrives, even the most connected couples find themselves navigating a new rhythm. But when one partner is neurodivergent- living with... more »

Maternal Gatekeeping: Why It Happens and How Couples Can Rebuild Balance

couple working together overcome maternal gatekeeping

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 5 minute read baby | couples | mental-health | Parenting | postpartum

After birth, many parents expect teamwork to come naturally, yet reality often feels more complicated. One mother I worked with said, “I kept telling... more »

Why Relationships Change After Having Kids, and How to Stay Close

parents having an honest conversation after becoming parents

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 5 minute read baby | couples | emotional support | Parenting

Becoming a parent changes nearly everything- your routines, priorities, and how much energy you have left at the end of the day. For many couples, the early... more »

Parenting While Neurodivergent

neurodivergent parent sitting with child

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 5 minute read 2 under 2 | baby | boundaries | emotional support | mental-health | Parenting

A client once told me, “Everyone says motherhood is hard, but I think it’s different for me. The noise, the unpredictability, the... more »

Relationship Struggles After Kids

rebuilding relationship after kids

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 2 minute read couples | intimacy | mental-health | Parenting

No one really tells you how much your relationship will change after having kids. You expect exhaustion and busyness, not distance. Not the arguments... more »

Should We Get a Divorce?

couple seems happy but debating divorce

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 2 minute read boundaries | couples | emotional support | mental-health | Parenting

It’s one of the hardest questions you can ask yourself: Should we get a divorce? By the time couples get here, they’re usually exhausted. The fights... more »

I Don’t Feel Like Myself After Having a Baby: Rediscovering Yourself

not feeling like yourself after baby

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 3 minute read baby | birth support | emotional support | mental-health | Parenting | postpartum

You keep waiting to feel like yourself again. You thought it would happen after the first few weeks. Or once you started sleeping more. Or once your body... more »

Maternal Gatekeeping and the Mental Load

couple overcoming maternal gatekeeping

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 3 minute read 2 under 2 | anxiety | couples | mental-health | Parenting

You know that feeling when it’s just easier to do it yourself? When asking for help feels like more work than the task itself? When you finally get... more »

Why You're Snapping at Your Kids (How to Stop Feeling Guilty)

mom not snapping at her kid and playing instead

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 2 minute read boundaries | emotional support | mental-health | Parenting | postpartum | guilt and shame

You lose your temper and then immediately feel awful. You tell yourself you’ll stay calm next time. You even promise it. But then the noise, the... more »

Returning to Work After Maternity Leave

returning to work after maternity leave

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 2 minute read mental-health | Parenting | guilt and shame

You might have imagined the moment after maternity leave- getting back to normal, using your brain again, having a bit of adult time. And maybe part of... more »

Why Is Parenting So Hard?

mother plays with her kid - parenting

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 4 minute read 2 under 2 | baby | emotional support | mental-health | Parenting | postpartum

When it comes to parenting, you’ve probably said it out loud at some point: why is this so hard? You love your kids. You’re grateful for them.... more »

Am I a Bad Mom? Struggling with Mom Guilt

a mom worried about being a bad mom

5 minute read anxiety | baby | emotional support | Parenting | guilt and shame

We've all felt like a bad mom before. You’ve probably asked it quietly, maybe after snapping at your partner, or putting your baby down a little too... more »

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