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Postpartum Intrusive Thoughts: Why They Happen and How to Heal

mom caring for baby after therapy for postpartum intrusive thoughts

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 5 minute read anxiety | baby | emotional support | mental-health | postpartum

A new mother once told me, “Sometimes I get these awful thoughts that come out of nowhere. They scare me so much I can’t even say them out... more »

Toronto Mothers are Increasingly Overwhelmed After Kids

toronto mother

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 3 minute read emotional support | mental-health | Parenting | postpartum | guilt and shame

From the outside, many city moms appear like they’re holding everything together. The Toronto parents seem to be juggling everything. They’re... more »

How Women with ADHD Describe Postpartum

women with ADHD

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 4 minute read emotional support | Parenting | postpartum | neurodivergence

Many women with ADHD spend years developing systems that help them function. They create routines. Compensate constantly. Push through overwhelm. Appear... more »

Why Anxiety and Resentment Often Show Up Together

couple after resolving resentment

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 2 minute read boundaries | couples | emotional support | intimacy | Parenting

Postpartum anxiety is not always obvious. Learning the subtle signs can not only provide context to all these new feelings but can also minimize resentment.... more »

Why So Many Mothers Feel Emotionally Invisible

mothers and child

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 1 minute read baby | depression | emotional support | postpartum | guilt and shame

Many mothers spend their days meeting everyone else’s needs while slowly disappearing from themselves. Not physically, but emotionally. Their... more »

Egg Donation and Mental Health: Understanding the Emotional Journey

woman reflecting on egg donation

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 4 minute read anxiety | emotional support | Fertility Journey | mental-health

Egg donation is often spoken about in medical or logistical terms: cycles, retrievals, injections, success rates. What’s less often discussed is... more »

Why Your Relationship Changes So Much After Having Kids

happy couple in a relationship

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 2 minute read boundaries | couples | emotional support | intimacy

Having children changes dynamics in ways many couples are completely unprepared for. Not because they don’t love each other.  Not because the... more »

Why Does Motherhood Feel so Hard?

woman with her child in early motherhood

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 3 minute read emotional support | mental-health | Parenting | postpartum

There’s a version of motherhood many women imagine before they arrive in it. Even when they know it will be hard, they still expect moments of relief.... more »

How to Find the Right Therapist for You: A Gentle Guide to Getting Started

woman talking to virtual therapist

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 4 minute read anxiety | boundaries | depression | emotional support | mental-health

It usually begins quietly. You realize that you have been coping on your own for a long time and that you might need someone to talk to. Maybe it is the... more »

Supporting a Neurodivergent Partner After Baby

neurodivergent partner playing with baby

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 5 minute read baby | boundaries | couples | emotional support | mental-health | Parenting | postpartum

When a new baby arrives, even the most connected couples find themselves navigating a new rhythm. But when one partner is neurodivergent- living with... more »

Why Relationships Change After Having Kids, and How to Stay Close

parents having an honest conversation after becoming parents

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 5 minute read baby | couples | emotional support | Parenting

Becoming a parent changes nearly everything- your routines, priorities, and how much energy you have left at the end of the day. For many couples, the early... more »

When Motherhood Meets Social Media: A Therapist’s Perspective on Comparison and Self-Worth

mother scrolling social media and feeling self-critical

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 4 minute read anxiety | depression | emotional support | mental-health

I often meet mothers who whisper a version of the same confession: “I know social media isn’t real, but I still feel like I’m... more »

Parenting While Neurodivergent

neurodivergent parent sitting with child

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 5 minute read 2 under 2 | baby | boundaries | emotional support | mental-health | Parenting

A client once told me, “Everyone says motherhood is hard, but I think it’s different for me. The noise, the unpredictability, the... more »

Understanding Intimate Partner Violence (IPV)

Understanding Intimate Partner Violence (IPV)

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 6 minute read boundaries | emotional support | intimacy | mental-health

When people picture abuse, they usually think of bruises or shouting. Something visible. Something loud. But the truth is, many forms of intimate partner... more »

What Narcissism Really Is (And What It Isn’t)

What Narcissism Really Is (And What It Isn’t)

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 3 minute read boundaries | emotional support | mental-health

It feels like everyone is talking about narcissism these days. There are thousands of posts and videos telling you how to “spot a... more »

Understanding PTSD and How Healing Actually Happens

woman healing from PTSD

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 5 minute read anxiety | depression | emotional support | grief | mental-health

You’ve probably heard of PTSD- Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder. Maybe you picture soldiers, car crashes, or something catastrophic. But PTSD can happen... more »

Should We Get a Divorce?

couple seems happy but debating divorce

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 2 minute read boundaries | couples | emotional support | mental-health | Parenting

It’s one of the hardest questions you can ask yourself: Should we get a divorce? By the time couples get here, they’re usually exhausted. The fights... more »

I Don’t Feel Like Myself After Having a Baby: Rediscovering Yourself

not feeling like yourself after baby

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 3 minute read baby | birth support | emotional support | mental-health | Parenting | postpartum

You keep waiting to feel like yourself again. You thought it would happen after the first few weeks. Or once you started sleeping more. Or once your body... more »

Why You're Snapping at Your Kids (How to Stop Feeling Guilty)

mom not snapping at her kid and playing instead

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 2 minute read boundaries | emotional support | mental-health | Parenting | postpartum | guilt and shame

You lose your temper and then immediately feel awful. You tell yourself you’ll stay calm next time. You even promise it. But then the noise, the... more »

How CBT Therapy Helps with Anxiety and Depression

woman using CBT therapy

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 4 minute read emotional support | mental-health

You’ve probably heard of CBT therapy before (short for Cognitive Behavioural Therapy). Maybe your doctor mentioned it, or a friend said it... more »

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