Bloom Psychotherapy 

Blog

baby

Postpartum Intrusive Thoughts: Why They Happen and How to Heal

mom caring for baby after therapy for postpartum intrusive thoughts

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 5 minute read anxiety | baby | emotional support | mental-health | postpartum

A new mother once told me, “Sometimes I get these awful thoughts that come out of nowhere. They scare me so much I can’t even say them out... more »

When Worry Won’t Stop: Understanding Postpartum Anxiety

woman googling postpartum anxiety

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 5 minute read anxiety | baby | Parenting | postpartum | guilt and shame

You check your baby’s breathing for the third time in an hour. You listen for every sound, watch every movement, and replay every “what... more »

Why Postpartum Feels So Emotionally Lonely for So Many Mothers

postpartum parent and baby

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 2 minute read anxiety | baby | Parenting | postpartum

Many women expect postpartum to be exhausting. What they don’t expect is how emotionally disorienting it can feel. You can love your baby deeply and... more »

Why So Many Mothers Feel Emotionally Invisible

mothers and child

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 1 minute read baby | depression | emotional support | postpartum | guilt and shame

Many mothers spend their days meeting everyone else’s needs while slowly disappearing from themselves. Not physically, but emotionally. Their... more »

Supporting a Neurodivergent Partner After Baby

neurodivergent partner playing with baby

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 5 minute read baby | boundaries | couples | emotional support | mental-health | Parenting | postpartum

When a new baby arrives, even the most connected couples find themselves navigating a new rhythm. But when one partner is neurodivergent- living with... more »

Maternal Gatekeeping: Why It Happens and How Couples Can Rebuild Balance

couple working together overcome maternal gatekeeping

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 5 minute read baby | couples | mental-health | Parenting | postpartum

After birth, many parents expect teamwork to come naturally, yet reality often feels more complicated. One mother I worked with said, “I kept telling... more »

Why Relationships Change After Having Kids, and How to Stay Close

parents having an honest conversation after becoming parents

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 5 minute read baby | couples | emotional support | Parenting

Becoming a parent changes nearly everything- your routines, priorities, and how much energy you have left at the end of the day. For many couples, the early... more »

Parenting While Neurodivergent

neurodivergent parent sitting with child

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 5 minute read 2 under 2 | baby | boundaries | emotional support | mental-health | Parenting

A client once told me, “Everyone says motherhood is hard, but I think it’s different for me. The noise, the unpredictability, the... more »

I Don’t Feel Like Myself After Having a Baby: Rediscovering Yourself

not feeling like yourself after baby

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 3 minute read baby | birth support | emotional support | mental-health | Parenting | postpartum

You keep waiting to feel like yourself again. You thought it would happen after the first few weeks. Or once you started sleeping more. Or once your body... more »

Why Is Parenting So Hard?

mother plays with her kid - parenting

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 4 minute read 2 under 2 | baby | emotional support | mental-health | Parenting | postpartum

When it comes to parenting, you’ve probably said it out loud at some point: why is this so hard? You love your kids. You’re grateful for them.... more »

Am I a Bad Mom? Struggling with Mom Guilt

a mom worried about being a bad mom

5 minute read anxiety | baby | emotional support | Parenting | guilt and shame

We've all felt like a bad mom before. You’ve probably asked it quietly, maybe after snapping at your partner, or putting your baby down a little too... more »

Toddler Tantrums: What’s Normal and How to Handle Them

Toddler Tantrums: What’s Normal and How to Handle Them

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 5 minute read 2 under 2 | baby | emotional support | Parenting

If you’ve ever carried a wailing, spaghetti-limbed toddler out of a grocery store while your face burns with embarrassment—this is for you.... more »

Key Differences Between Psychodynamic Therapy and CBT for Perinatal Anxiety

Therapist guiding a new mother through psychodynamic therapy and CBT techniques

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 5 minute read anxiety | baby | emotional support | Parenting

Did you know that nearly 20 percent of mothers experience perinatal anxiety during pregnancy or in the first year after birth? The Canadian... more »

Growing Your Family: Second Baby, Sibling Dynamics & You

Growing Your Family: Second Baby, Sibling Dynamics & You

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 8 minute read 2 under 2 | anxiety | baby | Parenting

For many parents, the decision to have a second baby is far from simple. The joy of welcoming a first child often brings an overwhelming sense of love,... more »

Sex and Gender Disappointment: Insights from a Perinatal Therapist

Sex and Gender Disappointment: Insights from a Perinatal Therapist

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 5 minute read baby

Bringing a child into the world is a deeply personal and transformative experience. Expectant parents often dream about the life they'll share with their... more »

Are You Getting Enough Sleep?

a woman getting enough sleep

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 3 minute read baby | boundaries | mental-health | Parenting | guilt and shame

Most people are not getting enough sleep. Sleep deprivation affects your mental and emotional health, and those with mental health problems are more... more »

« Back to Blog




Call Us Directly