At Bloom Psychotherapy, we provide specialized virtual therapy across Canada for fertility, pregnancy, postpartum, and parenting mental health.
This blog shares therapist-informed insights on what many people experience, but don’t often say out loud.
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You’re not alone, and this is exactly the kind of work we do every day.
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MSW, RSW, Registered Social Worker/Psychotherapist
Heather Ratych
3 minute read
couples
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intimacy
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mental-health
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guilt and shame
A woman sat across from me recently and told me she was furious because her husband had left a coffee mug on the counter. Not in a joking way. Not in a... more »
Heather Ratych
5 minute read
anxiety
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baby
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emotional support
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mental-health
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postpartum
A new mother once told me, “Sometimes I get these awful thoughts that come out of nowhere. They scare me so much I can’t even say them out... more »
Heather Ratych
5 minute read
anxiety
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baby
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Parenting
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postpartum
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guilt and shame
You check your baby’s breathing for the third time in an hour. You listen for every sound, watch every movement, and replay every “what... more »
Heather Ratych
3 minute read
emotional support
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mental-health
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Parenting
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postpartum
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guilt and shame
From the outside, many city moms appear like they’re holding everything together. The Toronto parents seem to be juggling everything. They’re... more »
Heather Ratych
4 minute read
emotional support
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Parenting
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postpartum
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neurodivergence
Many women with ADHD spend years developing systems that help them function. They create routines. Compensate constantly. Push through overwhelm. Appear... more »
Heather Ratych
2 minute read
boundaries
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couples
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emotional support
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intimacy
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Parenting
Postpartum anxiety is not always obvious. Learning the subtle signs can not only provide context to all these new feelings but can also minimize resentment.... more »
Heather Ratych
2 minute read
anxiety
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baby
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Parenting
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postpartum
Many women expect postpartum to be exhausting. What they don’t expect is how emotionally disorienting it can feel. You can love your baby deeply and... more »
Heather Ratych
3 minute read
anxiety
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mental-health
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Parenting
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postpartum
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guilt and shame
Many neurodivergent women spend years learning how to function in environments that were never designed for the way their brains work. They create... more »
Heather Ratych
1 minute read
baby
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depression
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emotional support
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postpartum
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guilt and shame
Many mothers spend their days meeting everyone else’s needs while slowly disappearing from themselves. Not physically, but emotionally. Their... more »
Heather Ratych
4 minute read
anxiety
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emotional support
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Fertility Journey
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mental-health
Egg donation is often spoken about in medical or logistical terms: cycles, retrievals, injections, success rates. What’s less often discussed is... more »
Heather Ratych
2 minute read
anxiety
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mental-health
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Parenting
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postpartum
Many women expect postpartum mental health struggles to look obvious. But postpartum anxiety often hides behind: over-functioning, perfectionism, constant... more »
Heather Ratych
2 minute read
boundaries
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couples
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emotional support
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intimacy
Having children changes dynamics in ways many couples are completely unprepared for. Not because they don’t love each other. Not because the... more »
Heather Ratych
3 minute read
emotional support
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mental-health
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Parenting
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postpartum
There’s a version of motherhood many women imagine before they arrive in it. Even when they know it will be hard, they still expect moments of relief.... more »
Heather Ratych
4 minute read
anxiety
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boundaries
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depression
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emotional support
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mental-health
It usually begins quietly. You realize that you have been coping on your own for a long time and that you might need someone to talk to. Maybe it is the... more »
Heather Ratych
3 minute read
Fertility Journey
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grief
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mental-health
“Hope and fear often live side by side during fertility treatment.” If you’ve found yourself on an emotional rollercoaster while undergoing in... more »
Heather Ratych
5 minute read
baby
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boundaries
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couples
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emotional support
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mental-health
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Parenting
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postpartum
When a new baby arrives, even the most connected couples find themselves navigating a new rhythm. But when one partner is neurodivergent- living with... more »
Heather Ratych
4 minute read
Fertility Journey
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mental-health
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guilt and shame
It often begins quietly: a longing for another baby, a new sibling, a fuller family. For many parents, the desire to grow their family feels natural and... more »
Heather Ratych
5 minute read
baby
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couples
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mental-health
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Parenting
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postpartum
After birth, many parents expect teamwork to come naturally, yet reality often feels more complicated. One mother I worked with said, “I kept telling... more »
Heather Ratych
5 minute read
baby
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couples
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emotional support
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Parenting
Becoming a parent changes nearly everything- your routines, priorities, and how much energy you have left at the end of the day. For many couples, the early... more »
Heather Ratych
4 minute read
anxiety
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depression
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emotional support
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mental-health
I often meet mothers who whisper a version of the same confession: “I know social media isn’t real, but I still feel like I’m... more »
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We are an LGBTQ affirmative practice and welcome all individuals or couples who seek support and guidance at any point in their lives.
We work to foster an inclusive environment that supports and does not discriminate, regardless of race, ethnicity, national origin, gender, religion, age, marital status, sexual orientation, gender identity/expression, or disability. We recognize that families are built in many ways and welcome any and all families.
Babies are always welcome in session.