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Why Am I Feeling So Much Resentment After Having Kids?

coffee cup that caused a fight on resentment

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 3 minute read couples | intimacy | mental-health | guilt and shame

A woman sat across from me recently and told me she was furious because her husband had left a coffee mug on the counter. Not in a joking way. Not in a... more »

When Worry Won’t Stop: Understanding Postpartum Anxiety

woman googling postpartum anxiety

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 5 minute read anxiety | baby | Parenting | postpartum | guilt and shame

You check your baby’s breathing for the third time in an hour. You listen for every sound, watch every movement, and replay every “what... more »

Toronto Mothers are Increasingly Overwhelmed After Kids

toronto mother

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 3 minute read emotional support | mental-health | Parenting | postpartum | guilt and shame

From the outside, many city moms appear like they’re holding everything together. The Toronto parents seem to be juggling everything. They’re... more »

How Does Parenting Differ for Neurodivergent Parents?

neurodivergent parents with child

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 3 minute read anxiety | mental-health | Parenting | postpartum | guilt and shame

Many neurodivergent women spend years learning how to function in environments that were never designed for the way their brains work. They create... more »

Why So Many Mothers Feel Emotionally Invisible

mothers and child

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 1 minute read baby | depression | emotional support | postpartum | guilt and shame

Many mothers spend their days meeting everyone else’s needs while slowly disappearing from themselves. Not physically, but emotionally. Their... more »

Guilt and Comparison in Secondary Infertility: A Therapist’s Perspective

mother holding child while feeling sadness about secondary infertility

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 4 minute read Fertility Journey | mental-health | guilt and shame

It often begins quietly: a longing for another baby, a new sibling, a fuller family. For many parents, the desire to grow their family feels natural and... more »

Why You're Snapping at Your Kids (How to Stop Feeling Guilty)

mom not snapping at her kid and playing instead

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 2 minute read boundaries | emotional support | mental-health | Parenting | postpartum | guilt and shame

You lose your temper and then immediately feel awful. You tell yourself you’ll stay calm next time. You even promise it. But then the noise, the... more »

Returning to Work After Maternity Leave

returning to work after maternity leave

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 2 minute read mental-health | Parenting | guilt and shame

You might have imagined the moment after maternity leave- getting back to normal, using your brain again, having a bit of adult time. And maybe part of... more »

Am I a Bad Mom? Struggling with Mom Guilt

a mom worried about being a bad mom

5 minute read anxiety | baby | emotional support | Parenting | guilt and shame

We've all felt like a bad mom before. You’ve probably asked it quietly, maybe after snapping at your partner, or putting your baby down a little too... more »

Social Media Impact on New Moms and Parenting

woman social media

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 3 minute read anxiety | mental-health | Parenting | guilt and shame

Social media has transformed the landscape of parenting, offering a platform for connection, information sharing, and community building among new moms.... more »

Are You Getting Enough Sleep?

a woman getting enough sleep

Heather Ratych Heather Ratych 3 minute read baby | boundaries | mental-health | Parenting | guilt and shame

Most people are not getting enough sleep. Sleep deprivation affects your mental and emotional health, and those with mental health problems are more... more »

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