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From Resentment to Resilience

A Self‑Guided Program for Moms Who Are Tired of Carrying It All

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"I vividly remember feeling resentment in those early postpartum days—the exhaustion, the overwhelming sense of responsibility, and the quiet frustration that no one seemed to understand the load I was carrying. These feelings were unsettling, and I struggled to admit them even to myself."

Heather Ratych

Founder of Bloom Psychotherapy


“I feel like I’m doing everything and no one even notices.”

If this thought has crossed your mind more than once lately—you’re in the right place.

Here’s the truth: resentment doesn’t show up overnight. It builds slowly, through skipped showers, unacknowledged emotional labor, endless checklists, and the constant feeling that you are the glue holding everything—and everyone—together. Along the way, you’ve lost you.

From Resentment to Resilience is designed to help you find your way back.


From Resentment to Resilience


This program is for the mom who:

  • Is secretly angry, depleted, or emotionally checked out
  • Feels disconnected from herself and everyone around her
  • Can’t keep carrying the weight of everyone’s needs
  • Wants to stop snapping, numbing, or withdrawing
  • Craves clarity, relief, and space to feel like herself again

Inside the Program

What You’ll Learn & Do:
Name It to Shift It: 

  • Understand how resentment builds from mental load, unmet needs, and identity loss
  • Learn how emotional suppression shows up in your body and behavior

Untangle Your Invisible Load

  • Journal prompts and guided exercises to unpack what you’re carrying
  • Reimagine your daily life with boundaries—rather than burnout

Reconnect with Yourself

  • Gentle identity work: Who are you now, beyond being a mom?
  • Tools to reconnect with joy, creative energy, and your inner voice

Repair & Rebalance Relationships

  • Scripts and strategies to express resentment and needs without shame
  • Support for rebalancing emotional and logistical labor at home

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Why is it Important to Understand

Postpartum Resentment?


In early 2023, we published a blog post on postpartum resentment (read here) and it quickly became our most-read article. Due to the overwhelming response, we recently updated it (read here) to reflect how commonly this theme arises in our therapy sessions. Many clients come to us overwhelmed, scared, or even ashamed of the resentment they feel—a feeling that often leads them to question who they are as mothers. They find themselves reacting with anger or frustration that they can’t seem to shake, leaving them feeling like they’ve lost touch with their true selves.

 

Postpartum resentment is a common and normal feeling experienced by many new moms, though it's rarely discussed openly. The journey into parenthood is life-changing, filled with joy, but also with demands that can feel exhausting and isolating. Between sleep deprivation, endless tasks, and the emotional upheaval that comes with new roles, it’s no wonder many moms start to feel quietly resentful. Understanding these feelings is the essential first step in managing them and finding a path back to balance and self-compassion. If you've experienced any of these feelings, know that you’re not alone, and that there is support and hope on this journey.

 

We created From Resentment to Resilience as a resource to help moms understand and work through these emotions, finding a new sense of resilience and self-empowerment along the way. Through guided exercises, reflections, and tools, you’ll discover ways to reconnect with yourself, find peace in the everyday, and experience parenthood with greater clarity and strength.
 

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Hi, I'm Heather

I’m a mom of three and a Registered Social Worker who knows firsthand how complex the path to and through parenthood can be. In my own journey, I vividly remember feeling resentment in those early postpartum days—the exhaustion, the overwhelming sense of responsibility, and the quiet frustration that no one seemed to understand the load I was carrying. These feelings were unsettling, and I struggled to admit them even to myself.

 

Today, at Bloom Psychotherapy, I focus on helping clients work through the emotional intensity of infertility, grief, and the postpartum period, including those difficult feelings of resentment, shame, and guilt that can arise unexpectedly. I’m committed to challenging the myth of the “perfect” mom and creating a compassionate space where parents can reconnect with themselves, feel understood, and find peace on their own unique paths.

I’m so excited to share From Resentment to Resilience, a program I’ve created for moms navigating the complexities of resentment in motherhood. This resource was born out of the real, raw experiences that so many parents face but rarely feel comfortable discussing. It’s designed to help you work through those challenging feelings, reconnect with yourself, and find renewed strength and resilience on this journey. I’ve poured my heart into each page, offering tools, reflections, and exercises that encourage healing, self-compassion, and growth. This workbook isn’t just about managing resentment; it’s about transforming it, helping you feel more grounded, empowered, and connected to yourself and your family.

From Resentment to Resilience

  • Giving your permission...

    to feel frustrated, exhausted, even resentful, without guilt.

  • Understand Postpartum Resentment...

    and where it comes from

  • Learn new tools and skills...

    to manage the tough moments, ask for help, and rediscover yourself 

What's Included?

  • Reflective Journal (over 100 pages) 

    Filled with prompts, space for writing or drawing, and reflection

  • Video Presentation

    A guided session to walk you through the core principles (recorded)

  • Guided Meditation 

    Designed to help you pause, reset, and reconnect with yourself

  • Therapeutic Activities 

    Mental Load Dump & Destroy, 10‑Minute Joy Sparks, “Remember Her?” Self‑Rediscovery Hunt, The Joy Timeline, Resentment Recovery Date Night, Mini Book: The Fun Date Night Reset

Invest in yourself

Regular price: $129 (+$19 for bonuses)

You are not too much.

You’ve just been carrying too much with too little support. 

Let’s change that.

Yes, I’m ready. Enroll now.

Common Questions


What's included in the bonuses?

We love the bonuses! We've included a Check-In Card Deck, a workbook for The Partner That Wants to Help But Doesn't Know How, and The Self-Compassion Starter Kit.

Is the workbook a physical book?

We created this as a digital product to be accessible on your phone, tablet, or laptop. Resentment can show up when we least expect it and having quick access to this resource is another tool you can use in that moment so we wanted it to always be available to you. We recommend having a notebook as well for additional journal pages when you have the space to sit down and write.  

I’m not located in North America.  Can I still access the program?

Yes! The journal prompts, tips, and education that we provide can help any parent work through postpartum resentment!

What is your refund policy?

We don't offer refunds for digital products. Once you have access to the program you have instant access to all of the resources on this topic.

How long does the program take?

There are over 100 pages of content and we recommend taking your time or revisiting sections for more support. You can work through at your own pace (or when you get 5 minutes!)


NEW CLIENT INQUIRY & BOOKING REQUESTS


Send us a message so we can find the best fit for your care or answer your questions about how we can support you.

 

Our team of perinatal therapists are parents themselves and understand how complex this journey can be. They understand fertility, postpartum, and how the rest of our lives can affect these times.

 

Connect with our Client Coordinator today to find the best fit for you.

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647-946-2229

 

Office Hours

9am-5pm ET

Monday-Friday

 

Services are provided through secure online video-conferencing or by telephone to anyone in Canada.

 

We are an LGBTQ affirmative practice and welcome all individuals or couples who seek support and guidance at any point in their lives.

 

We work to foster an inclusive environment that supports and does not discriminate, regardless of race, ethnicity, national origin, gender, religion, age, marital status, sexual orientation, gender identity/expression, or disability. We recognize that families are built in many ways and welcome any and all families.

 

Babies are always welcome in session.

 

 

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